Should You Let Others Touch Your Tarot Cards? - Daily Tarot Girl (2024)

To touch or not to touch? That is the question!

I am often asked “is it okay for others to touch my Tarot cards?”
There is a belief that if someone else handles your cards, their energy will be absorbed by the deck and mess up the accuracy of future readings.

This is a legitimate concern and it is certainly possible. BUT…..

To be concerned that someone’s energy could mess up your cards is kind of like being worried that someone might get their germs on your doorknob. Yes, it happens, but that’s what Purrell is for!

So yes, when you let other’s get their grubby mits on your cards, you run the risk of them contaminating the deck – both energetically and germ-wise. But there are so many methods of clearing your deck, that this shouldn’t be a concern for you.

Some Zippy Ways to Cleanse Your Deck:

  • Simply shuffle it and intend that the shuffling is removing any unwanted energy
  • Place your cards on your windowsill over night on a Full Moon! Witchy!
  • Put a crystal, like clear quartz, on top of the deck for a few hours
  • Knock on your deck to break up and dispell any leftover energy
  • Waft burning sage over your cards (sage is a wonderful energy cleanser – its like the Purrell of the spirit realms)
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Having said all that, some Tarot card readers just prefer to be the only one handling their cards and letting others touch their cards would be just plain wrong, like sharing underwear. And that’s okay too. Do what you feel most comfortable with.

Personally, if I am having my Tarot cards read, I like to choose my own cards and touch them as much as possible! This makes me feel like I am participating fully in my own reading and that the cards I end up with couldn’t be wrong since I chose them. And if someone tells me I can’t touch something, I feel like a five year old in an art gallery and I WANT TO TOUCH even more!

So here’s my two cents:

If you have been reading Tarot for years and never let anyone touch your cards and this is the way you like it – keep doing it that way. If it works, do it.

But if you are new to Tarot and are wondering whether or not you should let other’s touch your cards when your reading for them, RELAX! It’s totally fine for others to touch away. In fact, I feel like this enhances the authenticity of a reading. You just need to trust in the power of your intention to clear your Tarot deck of any unwanted energies afterwards.

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I am curious to hear what your take on this is! So let me know in the comments below how you feel about people touching your cards – are you okay with it? Or do you have a strict no-touch policy?

Should You Let Others Touch Your Tarot Cards? - Daily Tarot Girl (2024)

FAQs

Is it OK for other people to touch your tarot cards? ›

There is no strict rule, or any rule, that states to not let others touch your tarot deck. This is why you cleanse your deck like once or twice a month.

What to do if someone touches your Tarot deck? ›

If someone touches this deck, I cleanse it before I use it again. Simple as that. If that happens your cards are soiled and need to be discarded.

When not to read tarot cards? ›

Your Question Is About Someone Else

If your entire line of questioning is about another person and their thoughts and behaviors (like what your ex is up to), then a tarot reading is not the answer. Tarot is supposed to give you insight about *yourself*, not other people.

What not to do in tarot? ›

Don't look up Tarot card 'meanings'

I cannot stress enough, but please do not look up the 'meanings' of the cards. I know this can be the most difficult rule to abide by, yet it's the most important. Referring to a list of meanings shows that you do not trust your intuition, and Tarot is about honing our instincts.

How do you respect tarot cards? ›

Respect your cards like you would your clothes. Keep them in a bag or box so they don't get dusty or damaged.

Is it OK to read tarot to yourself? ›

Is it possible to do Tarot spreads on yourself, even if you're a beginner? Yes! It absolutely is. Tarot is a modality that helps us gain greater insight into our current situations, honor our intuition and forecast potential outcomes.

How do you neutralize tarot cards? ›

Place your tarot deck on top of crystals or inside a singing bowl to cleanse it of negative energy and charge it with positivity. Crystals that have cleaning properties include selenite, black tourmaline and black obsidian. Leave your tarot cards in sun or moonlight to draw out unwanted energies.

Is it okay to hang tarot cards on your wall? ›

You might feel bad to do that to a nice deck of tarot cards, but if you have extras, its no big deal really to put them up on your wall. Can reading tarot cards lead to bad things? Only if the reader and the sitter (the person who's read to) leave their brain in the corner.

Can I throw my tarot cards? ›

Disposal by destruction? that's not for the cards, but passing them along is the accepted thing to do. If you must, you can ceremonially “clear them” in several ways that you'll find using Google, then sell or give them away.

How do you thank a tarot reader? ›

Thanks for providing an insightful reading. Your assessment was accurate and more importantly the remedial measures were simple and very pertinent. Patiently answering all my queries and an insight into the way forward was really helpful.

Are tarot cards for everyone? ›

It's for you, too, if you want it to be. As we've discovered in our own journey with tarot, there is no one type of person who reads the cards or comes for readings. People of all ages, from all walks of life and with all professional backgrounds have been known to dabble with the deck.

How to do tarot cards for someone else? ›

You shuffle, ask them to get the deck and split in 3 mounts, them you join the mounts again and spread them on the table in fan style, ask them to pick the cards. Clients love to pick the cards and tend to be more receptive to the answers when they have picked the cards.

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